I've been dating thoris guy for about 6 months and we hit it off pretty good. We had sex for the first time on Saturday and today I found out he has two children ages 5 and 14 and that he is 34. Not only that but he's married! I feel really bad because I only found by seeing them in the mall together.
He actually had the nerve to hug me and introduce me like nothing had happened. Then he texts me and says he was going to tell me soon that he was married and not really 25 but 34.
I was really angry so I was going off saying all types of things and I told him that I was going to inform his wife that he's been cheating.
I did break it off with him but now he has been calling and texting and he came to my house and knocked for half an hour. I realized that I was speaking out of anger and I would never disrespect or anger his wife by something like this.
I feel so stupid because she is really nice . Yet I'm a homewrecker. Am I wrong for using that empty threat?
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He committed the worst sin possible. He cheated on his wife who he promised never to do so. How does it feel to know he lied to you, cheated on you, betrayed you? What if he had AID's?
Tell his wife. You see if you do not, that makes you a party to adultery which mean you inherit the sin of another. What if you get pregnant, he is off to another stupid young girl who will put out just like you did . You will be cheated on and betrayed in your future.
The wife needs the truth. Why would the universe make the truth visible to you? Tell the wife in the most embarrassing way possible. The next time he shows up at the house, call the police, let her bail him out of jail. You let this go, then you have no value and he just ran over you and got away with it.