I met this guy through a popular online dating site and I've been seeing him for almost 4 months. He is very secretive about himself and when I brought that fact up he brushes it off or changes the subject. Because of the culture in his native country I feared he might be married.
So I gave him a back ground check(using a well known and reputable service) but nothing came up in a either a states wide or nation wide search .Not even so much as a speeding ticket.
So I reverse searched his cellphone number and it was listed under another name.
I searched that name up and again no information could be found on that person in either a states wide or nation wide search .
He's been in America since he was a child . He is a naturalized citizen able to vote. Once when we were going to dinner he was pulled over by the cops and given a warning . I glimpsed his license so I'm fairly certain he is who he says he is But I haven't met anyone in his life (family or friends).
Some may find what I did morally wrong but the internet makes it very easy for people to misrepresent themselves. But the question is should I be worried that I couldn't find anything on him?
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I've never done it personally because I don't agree with the necessity, but moving past that...I understand your reasons. If you found nothing he probably just doesn't frequent sites that keep much on him. He may not be hiding anything and could just be relatively inactive online and doesn't have anything that has legally called attention to him. I don't think it's suspicious. I doubt sincerely that he has very much to necessarily hide. Tell him you'd like to get to know him better in the future, if you really are curious, instead of relying on the internet. The best source is direct experience and conversation.0