I would never date a woman who had a male best friend(s), that's too much drama and I've been through that before. If I'm with a woman, I'm supposed to be her boyfriend and best friend! If a woman were to dump me because of this, 9 times out of 10 she's ******* him and I don't need that drama in my life. Would you date someone who had friends of the opposite sex, I wouldn't.
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I'd be a hypocrite if I didn't date guys with female friends since most of my close friends are guys and no, I haven't slept with any of them. I just get along better with guys, tend to have more lasting friendships with them. I have no interest in any of them outside friendship and none of them have ever shown the slgihtest sexual interest in me- they're either in long term relationships or actually married.
I'm fine with a guy I date having female friends because I understand that friendship can be platonic and I believe in trusting my gut. If you feel like something is off about the friendship- it probably is. If I don't sense anything but friendly affection between them, then what's the harm?
My thoery us this- if a guy wants to be with me, then he is. If he wanted to be with his female friend then he would be. I don't actually care if they were together in the past- if he's up front about it, and doesn't spend frequent evenings alone with her, it makes no difference to our relationship.
Any guy I date has to accept I have male friends and I care about them, they're like family- if he's going to date me, he'll have to deal with them.0