This is for both guys AND girls. Would you date someone with a kid? why or why not?
- Yes I would, no problem23% (23)22% (18)22% (41)Vote
- No I wouldn't.38% (39)51% (42)44% (81)Vote
- It depends (explain)39% (40)27% (22)34% (62)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
I voted yes (option A).
It's a simple understood fact of life that in the 21st century, women are more likely to have a child. It's a sign of the times. In fact, statistically, me being a 27yr old black American male without
Not saying that there aren't potential roadblocks with dating a girl with a kid.
The relationship she has with the baby's father honestly isn't a problem that I'd have, simply because I don't give a f*ck about his opinion on his ex's dating life. I'm the type to simply date the girl and not care about her ex's opinion (but I will be cordial to him if he's around of course).
The #1 problem that I do foresee is a lack of freedom on her part. Being an oldest sibling, having siblings from adult to elementary age...i know 1st hand growing up how much TIME and ATTENTION having a child can be.
Dating a girl with a kid would be a strain because it's almost a given I won't be able to has as much intimate time alone with her. I wouldn't rule her out, but I know I have to brace myself to endure more obstacles to be with her vs. dating a girl that's child-free.
Sorry for the rant! :-P2