I've been dating this guy...we've hung out 11 times over a 2 month period. We're even seeing each other on New Years Eve. In the beginning, he used to text me every single day. But lately, he's been texting me every other day. It's finally been 2 days and I haven't heard from him, so I decided to call him but he didn't answer. So I texted him "Was hoping to catch you on the phone...wanted to wish you and your family a Merry Christmas, I look forward to seeing you on NYE." He replied with "Merry Christmas to you too, I've been excited about NYE all week!" And that was it.
I just don't know what's up. What do you guys make of this?
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It's X-mas. He's probably super busy with his family. Especially if he has a big one. According to his response it doesn't sound like you have anything to worry about or he would have been more short in his answer like, Merry Christmas, & nothing more.
ether he has just been really busy for the holidays with his family and friends
he has met someone else but this one is probably unlikely if he replied he is still excited for NYE
just chill out and wait for the day to come, guys sometimes don't know what to say over the phone or just don't like texting everyday because usually that will make things boring. you have to have something to talk about when your in person instead of using up all the convo's over text
he's excited to see you on new years, your going to go out and have a good time. you aren't in a committed long term relationship yet so he shouldn't have to talk to you every day. he has his own life and so do you. its not like he's dropping those plans
or instead of all of those ridiculously overthought answers lol, he was busy with the busiest day of the year so forgot to reply or something, and a lot of people like new years eve, its a big party fresh start blah blah really girls need to stop reading into things that arnt there lol to me it sounds like he's just carrying on the conversation