His guy I met only wants to do me. I got mad at him because he stopped talking to me for two weeks, then when I saw him he was even more of a jerk to me. But I'm bored, and it bothers me that he's talking to other girls. he hasn't texted me in a couple weeks. If I texted him would it be so bad? I know I'm only hurting myself if I do, but I don't like that he got over me and I think about him all the time. Honestly I just want to stop thinking about him but I can't, so in the mean time, what if I texted him?
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I think you already have a feeling that this isn't right. And honestly, I think you'd be better off to ease up and let this guy come to you. it seems that he's really only interested in sex, and would really like to get it from any girl he can, which explains him texting other girls. I've been in your shoes and I know it sucks to have feelings for someone you've been hooking up with, but please just trust me when I say that if you would stop talking to him, you'l easily be able to move on. however, if you keep his number in your phone, continue to wait for his texts, and wait around with wishful thinking that he'll grow to like you, it will be much tougher to forget him, and will just make you miserable. try to move on and find a guy who gives you as much attention as you're willing to give him. of course its flattering that he finds your body sexy and attractive, but he doesn't find YOU attractive. he's not overtaken by your fun personality, or your little quirks. he just likes what he sees on the outside. he's shallow, and you shouldn't wait around for someone who doesn't care to know YOU.3