My girlfriend and I has been going out for 4 months now. She has a lot of guys friend and a few she dated. One of them she talks to almost daily. She told me they dated for about 2 months a year ago, but it didn't work out cause he doesn't have a job, live with his parents and now he let himself go and got fat which she doesn't find attractive. Her friend knows we are going out but yesterday she sent her a text saying he is jealous of me being with her cause he said said she was closed off and never opened up to him and give him a chance when they were dating...
How I should react in this situation?
Should I be worry if they hangout?
Should I be worry if she hangout with any of the guys she dated?
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Act aloof. Don't care. He isn't competition as far as your concerned. Maybe even make a joke about how your girlfriend should cheat on you with him.
(DISCLAIMER: IF YOU CAN'T PULL THE JOKE OFF, DON'T DO IT! I DON'T KNOW YOUR STYLE OF HUMOR DON'T ACT OUT OF CHARACTER!)
Next time he comes up in conversation, casually mention how creepy you think he is. Calling another guy creepy is a great **** block strategy. It has saved me many times, and gotten rid of competition a few times for me as well.
Should you worry if they hang out? Possibly, but never let her know that, but this is really something that you intuition should be leading you by, not an internet opinion.
No. Jealously implies your threatened, which means your vulnerable, which is a big turn off for a lot of women.