I texted my boyfriend asking him if he's doing anything for NY. And the following convo ensued:
bf: yes I'm going out with some hot chicks tonight muHAHAHAHA
me: LOL! understandable
bf: I'm just going to a bar
me: cool! they're gonna have a countdown
bf: yeah let's see who gets to have a taste of my lips tonight :D
me: make sure to take a pic and show me after, so I can be on my way
And he hasn't replied since.
Do you think I said the right thing? he's being a jerk right?
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I would bet he was joking, and even if he didn't, you replied nicely, no point in telling him "don't kiss! I forbid it", he knows that his actions have consecuences, and by not being dramatic about it you come across as confident, so he shall think twice before risking losing you, if you were the clingy kind of girl he would feel more confident to mistreat you. actually, once, I had practically this convo, except I didn't say bar, I said reunion, she didn't ask for pic, but I sent her anyway, a pic with me kissing my grandma's forhead, since that's where the reunion was, the "is there going to be a count down?" is a charming way of saying "I don't want you around other girls!" and the "yes, I'll kiss someone" is "remember that she who looks for something usually finds it, no I'm not going to cheat on you but if you are going to beahave with jealousy then I'll give a reason to justify it, not a real one of course, just a little mind game for you to think twice before getting suspicious with me, because deep inside you know it, if it have been him the one saying "is there going to be a countdown?" you'll be like "can you believe my jealous/childish man?"2