OK, if you are going to just say "waaa don't keep people as backups" don't because whatever, this is about doing just that.
I am in a very rocky time with my current girlfriend. We took a break last week and have been texting every once in a while. But, I think we will get back together eventually. We will see.
As a condition of the break we are allowed to see other poeple but not have sex.
There is a very cute, smart, funny girl that has been going after me. She doesn't know anything about my ex, or girlfriend or whatever you want to label her.
Thing is, this girl is GREAT. We've never done more than text and talk a few times if we see each other out, but she is interested for sure. I could see myself trying to date her one day.
My question is: How do I let her off easy now and not ruin things for the possible future with her? I wouldn't expect her to wait for me, and she is special so I think she will get grabbed up quick. But still, I would like to one day maybe date her, when my head is clearer.
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If she is as smart as you say she is, there is no way you will be able to put her on the back burner until you're "ready" . If your current relationship is not working why not break up with her and go after this smart, funny chick. Just date her now , why waste time with this current girlfriend if it ain't working? If she is as fantastic as you say, you're right someone who will appreciate her now will grab her up and you'll be stuck holding your D*^k.My advice is don't be a doofus go for her now, text curent Girlfriend a breakup text (this will surely piss her off enough to not want to be with you ) and pursue your dream girl, at lest if it dons't work out with her you won't have any regrets later on that you didn't at least try.0