My best friend (he is a guy) told me that guys really like girls who are not very experienced, not only in sex, but in dating and everything. He says that those kind of girls are more natural, easy going and spontaneous than girls who dated a hundred guys.
Is this true? Can you explain it a little better?
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I agree with him :)
When a girl doesn't have a lot of dating experience, she's maintained mental and spiritual innocence in a way. Most of the girls I who have dated many guys have developed baggage. They now have issues that they need to work through because of all these guys they let in their heart who, whatever the case may be, didn't stay. Especially if it was a situation where they were used or strung along. Naturally, it's going to give them trust issues and that can be really irritating for a good guy with good intentions to deal with. Heck, for me it's annoying af when there's a great guy who's allowed one too many bitches to blur his view on how dating should be and now he's all gaurded with me because of what some other girl to him. Now I am treated with the caution he should have had towards the bitch when I'm nothing like her. I think it's the same for guys.
It's a little aggravating to date someone who's been with so many people that they don't have the healthiest best way of behaving in a dating or relationship situation. For example, I know a girl who has been dating a bunch of guys since she was 12. She now has has an abortion, been in an abusive relationship, and been cheated on many times. She has huge trust issues and that is going to put a lot of weight on someone else who's interested in her to fix her. Not everyone wants to fix someone; some people don't know how, some people don't feel like it should be their responsibility.1