My ex and I had been through everything over the past three years. From divorces to losing a best friend and gaining an angel, anything awful, he was there by my side. I lost one of my best friends and I snapped. I became bitter, I didn't understand. I eventually pushed him away. A year ago when that happened I found out I was pregnant, something I couldn't handle. After a long hard decision we got rid of it, and were fine. It caused a lot of tension between us. We started talking again after two months of not seeing or hearing from each other. A month ago, I found out a girl he slept with was pregnant. My world came crashing down. I can't look at him, talk to him, nothing. He thinks if he dates her because of the baby everything will be fine. It might be for him, but not for me. I can't handle that, nor will I raise someone elses child. The past month I've been thinking, crying, regretting, asking myself why. I need to stop. I want to be happy. I can't wait on him forever. I need to do this for myself. Its a new year, I can't let him bring me down. How do I go out there and start again. Its been 3 years. I don't even know what a date is, or how to be. Please help me
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Yes, it's time to regain your freedom. Don't make big plans or sign up for dating sites, just enjoy the freedom from tension, worry, crisis, and conflict! When you meet someone who won't bring any of this back into your life, you will know it is time.
Don't give him any reason to think you'd ever consider continuing with him!
Go to new places, do new things, and don't frequent old haunts too many people wind up with annother person cut from the same mold...3
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