After talking to some of my girl friends I became at wits end with the guy I've been dating for two months and his inability to tell me how he feels about me. I was prepared to tell him that I wanted to spend less time with him, and texted him saying
"Can we talk, face to face, ASAP."
He texted me back saying, alright and asking if it was important. I replied yes, kind of and he replied, "should I be worried," and I said "It depends on how you look at it."
Having cooled down, and being reminded of how much I really like this guy I don't really want to have THAT talk. What do I say now to him though?
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Guys will get ready to run for tthe hills when they hear a phrase like that, and will be sweating. He will assume that's what your next conversation will be, even if you try to reassure him that you won't hit him wth that, that you've changed your mind.
You know, guys expect that 'talk' after a couple of months, so it' s not like you've surprised him!
So..you may as well go ahead and have it now. THAT kind of talk!