If you broke up with a girl for being needy and thinking the world of you and you got bored of it and kissed someone else what would potentially make you want her back more?
If when you text her (which he has 4 times since it happened two weeks ago) she doesn't respond, or she responds with a short friendly message? Which looks stronger? I'm trying to do no contact but I swear he thinks I'm so heart broken I can't speak to him whereas if I texted back it might look better?
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So wait let me clarify: if I broke up with a girl that was too needy and kissed another girl already, would kissing the other girl make me want the ex-girl back? If so, I don't understand why it would. If I broke up with her because of her clinginess, seems as if I've already made up my mind about it.
As for your perspective, you could let him know that another chance is what you want and would show him that you've changed or are able to change, then the ball is in his court.
However, if it were me I wouldn't believe it until I saw it (assuming I even wanted her still). So don't make the mistake of thinking that putting yourself out there automatically means that he thinks you're sincere and wants to try again.
Just the amount of planning that you're doing with your contact with him seems to me like you're still not any better from the clinginess, though.1