I've got a date with the hottest girl I've ever gone on a date with. She's a 10, no joke. I was talking to her and she gave me her number on her own, I think because she thinks I'm funny and I don't take her too seriously. So we set up a small date. However, I keep thinking to myself that maybe I'm not fun, I'm not funny, and I'm going to mess it up.
How can I stop doing this?
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You got the date in the first place, let that serve as the basis for your confidence level. If she wasn't even the slightest bit interested, she wouldn't have agreed. Lets face it, no girl is going to waste her night on someone she's not interested in. Let your best traits and characteristics shine through on the date. Don't over do it, don't try too hard. Just let it be natural. If you're nervous and jittery, don't be too hard on yourself. She'll think it's cute that you like her so much. SHE gave you HER number. You didn't even have to ask for it. She's definitely interested. If you feel yourself trying too hard, just take a step back and take a deep breath. Keep the conversation going and focus on her. Ask her questions about herself and find small subtle ways to relate to her by telling her stories of your own. But don't try to brag too much or talk too much about yourself. Keep the main focus on her. After a while you'll start to be at ease, and you can have a naturally flowing conversation. If you were able to land a date with this girl that you describe as a ten, then that also says a lot about you too. Just don't be cocky or overconfident. Be a gentleman, make her laugh, be respectful, be yourself. Girls can pick up when you're not being yourself. Just relax. It's a date, not the SATs. Remind yourself that she IS interested. She does see something in you that she likes. Good luck, and remember to just ENJOY the date. Make it a good time for the both of you.0