Ive lost all interest in the "jerk" because..well he's a jerk. shows lack of interest in getting to know me, doesn't say hi to me when girls are around (even though he wouldve had to gone out of his way to do so. It doesn't matter because I've seen him gone completely out of the way to come talk to me before) Anyways He called me on New Years Eve. I didn't return his missed call because I don't want to talk to him anymore. Well here's the problem. He lives close by so we're bound to run into each other sooner or later. I want to know what to do or say when I see him. His personality is very outspoken, flirty, etc & I'm expecting him to ask me why I didn't return his call. I really don't want to giv the real reason. Sucks that he lives close by . usually I can just stop returning a jerk's call without worrying about ever seeing him again. As for the nice guy, I don't really like him like that but I've been single for a while and I'm not looking for a boyfriend. Should I wait till I meet a guy I like in a boyfriend kinda way or keep the nice guy for company & whatever happens happens but I hv no intention of him being my boyfriend. My bff told me to stop dating the ncie guy because I'm not that into him but its not like I want him to be my boyfriend. We're friends, he likes me a lot but the feelings just isn't there for me and I've tried very hard for them to come. THOUGHTS?
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Say bye to both and start fresh. Get rid of the jerk you don't need that kind of negativity in your life. And if you have no feelings for the nice guy then don't bother with him either because you may be leading him on with out realising it :-)
Say bye to both and focus on yourself1