it has been 2 years since I have been with any one, and I'm worried that I might turn out alone, the thing is every time I go up to a girl she turns me down, I don't know y, I admit I know nothing about chatting up women, but I need some help to get me on to a path. I don't know what would help, gym and buying a car, I know I'm not the most attractive guy in the world but I'm sure I'm not the worse, even though I wear glasses. would really be grateful for some help, losing a battle
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Ditch the glasses, invest in contacts or buy more attractive glasses.
Going to the gym would probably help boost your self-esteem, girls like to be chased, and we pay attention to if a guy works out. If you're considered a "geeky guy", you need to throw out the star wars t-shirts and hide the figurines, or whatever. Geeks as "cuties" has been on the rise, so a Geeky Gym Rat would definitely be a sight to behold.
When it comes to chicks, simple conversation, talk to us like you would anyone else, there's no secret to it. You just comment "I really like that shirt" or "I like your scarf", something along those lines. "Your hair looks nice."
Something to get our attention, we love compliments, just say them with confidence, a confident guy and a relaxed guy are the type of thing we tend to pick up on. When a guy is nervous and scared out of his mind, it puts us off.
So yeah, go to the gym, take a speech class, randomly compliment a girl on the bus or at the bookstore.
We're turning you down probably because either,
1. You ooze "I'm so terrified to do this"
2. Your personal hygiene isn't the best
3. You come on too strong
4. Your aiming way to high.2