Ok so I was talking to this guy since November and we were trying to move things slow. One day I had to walk home from work and my ankles were sprained. I was super pissed at him and I told him he needed to make it up to me. He came to my house and hugged me, told me he was sorry and he'd do anything to make it up to me. He just kept hugging, kissing, and taking care of my ankle. But one thing led to another where were emotional and our hormones took over and we had sex. The pain in my ankle immediately went away, it was crazy lol! But we weren't official yet. We were still talking and he was talking to another girl. Ugh, we hung out more and dated more but he said he had feelings for me and feelings for her. Well I saw him Dec. 23 to invite him to a family event. He met my family, we all went out to eat and talk and we had a great time together. When we were away from everyone, we had sex again. But then he was busy all week during Christmas and I managed to give him his present a few days after Christmas, we exchanged gifts and kissed, etc and then we did it again. Well he said he was still thinking about whether he'd choose me or the girl and he said I was being clingy lately because I called him a lot because he was hard to get in touch with. Then recently he said on NYE he got beaten up and got his phone and shoes stolen. I didn't believe him and just ignored the sh*t out of him at work. His own parents didn't believe him either. But he came to speak to me recently to tell me what happened. I wanted to break up with him and be done with him. But he explained what happened and he told me he hung out with the girl and made the decision to be with her. I was super upset. Like I wasted all that time hanging out with you and making memories then you decide you want to date her. I did it to my own self for moving too fast anyway. But recently I was feeling super nauseous and sick. I developed pregnancy symptoms and everything. I took a test and it came out positive. But I didn't believe it. I told him I might be pregnant. He was upset but he told me he still wanted me in his life. Still wanted to be with me and that he wants me to trust him 100%. I'm still not sure what to do about everything. I like him, he likes the other girl, now I'm preggo, he's like he wants to take care of me and that he's willing to drop her. I honestly wasn't trying to "trap" him so I told him he could date her and to just leave me alone. I told him I wouldn't be his friend anymore and that I'm not going to be in his life anymore either, but now I'm pregnant and now he wants to be with me. What should I do?
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All these people suggesting abortion make me sick. Please don't kill your baby because of your mistake. If it's late enough for symptoms to show up, then the heart is beating, and the brain and spinal cord have started forming.
The way I see it, you have three options.
1) If you really don't want the guy in your life, you could keep the baby and raise it alone.
2) You could try to make it work with the guy. Personally, I think this one is worth a shot, for the baby's sake.
3) You could look into adoption. I would only do this if you're positive the baby would not have a good life with either of the first two options.
Good luck. This is quite a pickle you're in here.1