I have been dating a girl around a month now and wanted to see her some time this week out of school, problem was she turned out to be coming down with something. I told her get well soon and talked to her and everything but bid farewell afterward. She is exhausted and its either I invite myself over to her house or I end up inviting her to mine, and she likely won't mind making the trip. I am not afraid of germs or getting ill so kissing her is no big deal, but her nature would make her avoid kissing me for my sake. I am just wondering what can I do to help? Its still early in our relationship and I don't know if I should give her space or try and help. Any advice is much appreciated.
- Give her spaceVote A
- Help her a littleVote B
- OtherVote C
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I say swing by with some medicine and some flowers. That's generally what I do. Perks my girlfriend up just a little, and I sorta hang out with her, and make her dinner, soup, whatever. Cleanup when she needs it, get things so she doesn't have to move. Things like that. I try to make her feel good, cuddle her and do everything. Basically spoil her.
That's what I do at least. Been doing that for all of my relationships, and have done that for my girlfriend whenever I could. Every time she's sick, I try to at bare minimum, bring her flowers.3
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