I'm a little overweight (about 20 lbs) but I can't get a date to save my life which is in the real world and not online!
I dress well for my body type, and put on makeup not too much but a little to enhance my features, and I straighten my long hair.
I'm very inexperienced, never kissed, or dated and I'm in my early 20's.
I hate online dating so much when you meet up its super awkward and I can't form a connection.
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Learn to approach guys, dress to accentuate your curves (you have some, if you're 20lbs overweight), get a sense of humour especially a bawdy one, but don't be crude or vulgar (no using the c-word).
Learn to make guys laugh, and be ready to laugh at their jokes - make yourself fun to be around, flirt with guys, let the guys know you're a sexual lady, even though you're inexperienced never let on that you're inexperienced.
It's sad but true that guys will date a girl who they think they can get sex from, and will ignore a girl who is utterly innocent and likely to stay that way.