So when you are dating is it best to stay unavailable? Like have him text you first or call you first. Wait a couple hours to text back. I always let him make the plans. It's all about the chase right?
Or another example if the guy I'm seeing goes MIA for almost 3 days should I wait and let him contact me if he's busy working. I feel like I'm always the one first texting or calling him first. What's up?
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Depends on the guy. If it were me, and a girl left it up to me to do everything first, I'd question whether I was wasting my time. So, to answer your question "is it best to remain unavailable for guys?", it entirely depends on the guy and the outcome you want. If a girl remained unavailable to me, then I'd stop putting any effort in whatsoever and would be out of there quickly.
If you want the guy to text you/call you first, you'd have to give him a reason to. If you just expect him to it probably won't happen. It's tough for me to give you advice based on the little info you've given. I'd say text him. Whether you should continue to text him depends on his responses.0