So after seeing someone for 4 months who I've known for years, he told me he was having doubts about me and had kissed another girl because of it. He said he didn't see us working and we both cried lots.
Anyway I told him I didn't want to see him again or be friends but I wished him good luck and said I'd miss him. Since then he's texted saying he misses my friendship and that he's hurting, and some other texts. He then said he wanted to talk to me and he's called me but I didn't pick up. Now I know most likely he just wants to see how I'm doing or ease his conscience or regain my friendship. If he wanted me back I'm pretty sure he would tell me in a text?
So do I speak to him and possibly only achieve making myself feel awful again and give him the satisfaction of knowing I still want to talk or do I not text back and keep no contact? It's been less than a month since it happened. Thanks!
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Keep no contact and move on. You deserve better than that sh*t and you are doing the right thing with no contact if you still have feelings for him. Just remember these feelings are not love. Love is deeper than feelings (it is the acceptance of you and your partner).
Good luck with the next guy!0