He basically my boyfriend although we haven't put a label on it. It's weird because at the beginning we started off weird and rocky (he confessed he lied about his age, and I confessed that I've like this other guy for a very long time and I still had those feelings for the other guys when we first started talking)
Anyway, whenever he goes into to kiss me I let him, but my lips just get lazy and I don't kiss back or anything. I sorta hate it, kissing I mean..
He's actually the second person I've kissed, and I was this way before. I just don't like it.
He gets upset and thinks that I'm thinking about the other guy (which I'm not)
But I don't know how to tell him I don't like kissing.
Is that even normal..
Aren't you supposed to like kissing the person you're with
Is something wrong with me or is this common ? can anyone relate
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I don't particularly like kissing that much but the fact that my girlfriend likes it makes it more appealing.
If you don't like kissing in general, ask him if he likes kissing... if yes then maybe the fact that he likes it will bring you some joy to it but if he doesn't either.. maybe you guys don't ever have to kiss (at least the way you both don't like it).
So just talk to him. " I like you and am happy but I don't like kissing in general but if you do, lets compromise."2