...or just wait until the guy sees that the girl has been viewing his profile,and then HE decides to reach out to her...
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I usually wait until the girls sends me a message. I send messages too. I think it should be both ways. To explain, profiles are sometimes not very informative. Some contain photos only. It's difficult to come up with a message. Many girls dislike when you are just saying "hello." They think you should say something meaningful.
Sometimes, I visit the girl's profile and message her right after she looked at my profile.
The majority of my messages elicit no replies. I almost always reply to a message. But the shorter the incoming message, the shorter my return message is.
So the consequence of it all is this. It's a good idea to have a nice and informative profile.1