In high school I asked a guy if he wanted to go out with me. He said yes and we dated for three years - and that was it, simple as that!
Now as an adult I can't get anywhere at all with guys. It's all mind games, body language and jealousy tactics. People look you up online and read into things that aren't there, make promises with no intention of keeping them. Nobody talks anymore and you can't tell anyone how you feel without being perceived as desperate. Is it just me? I find games upsetting and a waste of time but being straight forward isn't getting me anywhere. Is there a way out of this?
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It's because people change through time.
This is true that's why a lot of tactics or strategies about attracting the opposite sex became so complicated. Also, the influence of romantic movies, novels, and magazines changed how people perceived the dating world.
Is there a way out of this? There is, if you want to stay single forever. However, you should adapt through the complications until you can have the ideal man you're searching for who's worth spending the rest of your life with, so that you don't have to be upset again by these dating complexities.0