In late November, a guy I've been hanging out with came to my house and met my family. Neither of us were at our best, as he was hung over and I was exhausted. He had been acting more couple-y with me - putting his arm round me when we walk, listening to me when I'm down, meeting my parents, kissing me...well he had to leave so I saw him to the door and awkwardly looked around for the outdoor light switch for a good few minutes and then he said quietly, "It doesn't matter", turned me round and we kissed. After a minute or two, his tongue was in my mouth. I've only kissed a guy once and that was him! I barely knew what it was! Basically I was so surprised that I didn't reciprocate the tongue action, and contact has been less frequent since then, although he did ask me the next week what I was doing over the weekend which I took to mean as a casual "would you be interested in hanging out again?". We've not seen each other since and now its January. I sent a couple of texts, neither of which he replied to. He's never been much of a texter, but this still seems a little strange. I want to text him in the next few day because I'm worried that we've really split, although we were never officially "boyfriend-girlfriend" - I just want some closure if that's the case so I can move on etc. Its Valentine's Day next month too so I kind of just want to know what's going on, what to expect, etc. His last text was in mid-December. I'd really like to know your thoughts on sparking off a nice conversation with him that will maybe make him think I'm not so bad after all. And do you think its worth it? What do you think is going on? Did he hate that I didn't use my tongue so much that he doesn't want to see me again? Did he think it meant that I wouldn't ever, or that I didn't like him enough to do that? This is my first relationship of any kind at the tender age of 17, so I'd really like some help! :)
Should I text him and what would you recommend I say?
What Guys Said 2
It's not because of your tongue that you're having problems.
It's not a good idea to deal with this dilemma through texting. It''s best if you can hang out again and have personal talks. You can also see there if he's willing to move things forward with you. That would lead to an increase rate of texting between the two of you which will be much more enjoyable.0
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