I recently got divorced, and back in the dating game. I'm not opposed to sex...but it doesn't' even seem possible to date without it being expected really quick! I'm not trying to sleep with every guy I'm interested in...but I don't want to be a total bitch either. What's the best way to go about putting it off, without totally turning the guy off?
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If the guy espects sex in advance of getting to know you first, then you should move on and start dating a guy who can hold a conversation without having sex in the sentence, because most guys would be happy to wait, unless all they are after is a date that they believe is easy and full of dessert, so your right not to want sex within the first 3 weeks at least, because there's no way a guy can get to know you enough to warrant him saying, fancy staying over tonight, and the initial first step should be you asking him to either come in for coffee or offer him a night cap, and see how things go, but really, if he is into you, he really will wait until your ready, because you show interest by dating the guy, not by having sex as soon as possible, this just starts a whole new ball game,x0