This guy asked me out and wants me to meet him at the restaurant. I believe the guy should pick up the girl. If a guy doesn't I don't consider it a date. Should I tell him to pick me up? What should I do?
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Sometimes it comes down to being "safe" ... I think many guys are fearful of seeming creepy wanting to know where you live. And, as a woman, you might consider that a good thing... do you really want some guy you just met to know where you live before you know if he's a stalker or not?
That being said, if you're comfortable I think is't safe to ask something like this, "That's great! Is there any chance you can pick me up?" If he can't then perhaps he's not as mobile as you.
One last thought... it's possible that these guys are nervous YOU'RE the stalker and they want to meet in a neutral location that they can escape from quickly should the date turn boring... because it would suck to have to drive you home if you're creepy. :D