I've been seeing someone for 10 weeks and at the beginning he was amazing. He was in contact everyday and we saw each other frequently. Now for some reason, he's only in touch every other day or every 2 days via text. He also doesn't ask me out as often as before.
He could be seeing someone else. It almost feels like our relationship could be over but for some reason he still texts me things like "good morning" and "how was your day". He won't go two days without saying something to me via text.
I don't get it. If his interest level has gone down, why is he still in contact?
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you aren't his new toy anymore. have you had the relationship talk? how far had your relationship progressed?
seems to me that he is keeping you on a string. either he doesn't want to lose you but isn't sure where this is going yet.
or maybe to him nothing is that different but the thrill "wore off" per se (that happened to me) so he still keeps you in mind and contacts you just not as often anymore when you were a brand new novelty and he was winning you over.
or, it is very possible that you are his back burner. maybe he is dating multiple women or he has another woman and he doesn't want to commit to anyone but he wants to have his options so he is keeping you around but not making you his number one.
i'd say you have some thinking to do.
no contact=no interest. since there is contact, he still wants to keep you around. but you need to see if you are still on the same page.0