Why does black guys parents not care what race he dates?
But, White girls parents don't like her to date black guys. Why do they think it is such a big deal?
I am talking to a black guy and I am white.
How should I tell them I like black guys?
Most Helpful Girl
Actually, there are a lot of black parents who don't want their children dating white people. And it's actually for some of the same reasons that white parents have. Like another poster said, it's that old-school idea of racial preservation. Some white people are afraid that the white race will disappear with the rise in interracial relationships and some black people fear the same for their own race. Slavery and the Jim-Crow era has also left a bad taste in a lot of peoples' mouths so that has a lot to do with it. It's just that the media usually only shows white parents disapproving. But let it be known that a lot of Black parents do disapprove also. But don't let that discourage your interest in this guy. I don't even think you need to tell your parents that he's black. Racism is real and telling them ahead of time might cause them to judge him before they even get to know him. Just introduce him to them when you feel the time is right and let them see firsthand how amazing this guy is for you.2