I don't drink or eat after others, not even family. I frequently wash my hands or apply hand sanitizer. That's how I've been since I was very young. When it comes to kissing, it isn't my cup of tea: you keep you spit in your mouth and I'll do likewise. It hasn't been until recently, however, that I've actually had any desire to kiss someone. Not strong, but desire no less. Can anyone relate?
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Awe... I was a completely germaphobic before I ever kissed a boyfriends and it took years to get over it in steps... My first boyfriend waited 8 months to make out/ kiss lol and I made him brush his teeth first (we dated for two years)... My second boyfriend and I never made out (we went out for a year lol)... I would never share a fork, water or share food that people put their fork/ spoon in more than once.. If I had food with dipping sauce with friends I made the flip and dip rule so that the side they bit wouldn't go in the sauce.. Kissing is great though.. You get such a rush.. Eventually you're even going to want to exchange oral sex (if/ when you want a successful sexual relationship).. Tell whom ever you end up dating about your discomfort and that you want to be able to do these things and if they can brush their teeth before kissing at first.. and eventually shower before being physical together and by then you will realize that these things feel good and it's just clean skin... My last boyfriend and I loved to shower together and would get physical after.. then wash off again after lol... You can make your OCD effect you by finding playful ways to incorporate it.. hope this helps0