Hot people make me nervous and uncomfortable. As much as I would love to date a hot guy, I avoid them at all costs because I can barely talk to them. Plus I know they will reject me. Hot people scare me, even though I am sure they are nice people. Even though I am attracted to men, I am even more terrified of pretty girls. This one girl I know gets along with me really well, and asks me to hang out with her friends since I am new to the city but I won't because she looks like a model. She keeps trying to get me out and about in this city because I am lonely, and she knows a guy but I saw his picture and he is gorgeous so I turned down the blind date.
Anyone else get like this? I know it's insecurity on my part, but I know I am so ugly and inadequate that I don't deserve to talk to good-looking people, let alone date a hot guy or be friends with a pretty girl.
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I have pretty much the same with hot girls. Even though I'm not attracted to them, and usually I'm not, I still get very nervous around them. I don't care about hot guys as long as they are not cocky, because that I can't stand.
About you looking up to hot girls: I know plenty of girls that give each other compliments about how good looking they are and how they look like a model, while in reality they aren't that good looking and are nothing like a model. It's like girls think a certain girl is really good looking, and wish they looked the same, while in fact that other girl really isn't that pretty. Some aren't even a bit attractive to me nor my guy friends. And the thing I hate the most is when girls go at each other for looking like a model, while in fact they don't look nothing like that, not even close. And even if they did, then what? So what if she looks like a model, why is that such a big deal? To me and most of my guy friends those mainstream models are in fact ugly and not attractive at all. So why would you want to look like that?
You indeed have some insecurities and doubt the way you look, but that's not really healthy. I can also understand why you're like that, but try to work on it though. You can have a much better personality than other hot girls, and they aren't better than you just because of their looks.