So my male friend and I went to dinner a few nights ago just to catch up. Things were going well and then when the check came the waiter asked if we wanted separate or together. I said separate but suddenly he just said together. So when the check came he wiped out his card and said he had it. Of course I protested but he insisted and wouldn't let me pay for my own. We ended the night with him walking me to my car and just joking around. I thanked him for paying and that was it. Now I didn't think much of it until my friend pointed out that she thought it was a date because he paid. In the past he admitted to having a crush on me (like last year) and my friend didn't make a move or anything eventually I figured he didn't care anymore. We've flirted a bit but never advanced past flirting. Now I'm kind of confused cause it's not like I haven't discouraged him in terms of wanting a possible relationship. What do I do? Was that a date?
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It wasn't. A date is a get together with a romantic intention. In other words, both people are fully aware of each others' intention. The purpose of the date is not to "hang out" or "catch up". The purpose is to get to know each other and see the feasibility of a future relationship. What I cannot understand is why your male friend didn't make a move that night.0