How come the 'exclusive talk' scares off guys?

How come the 'exclusive talks' scares off guys.

How would you be able to tell the difference when you first start dating that he wants something real and not stringing you along without the female having to bring anything up?

Just don't want to repeat past mistakes when I get back into dating again!

Also does having sex too soon really do ruin something when dating? And why? Especially when the guy comes on too strong to begin with!


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What Guys Said 2

  • Because it scares the sh*t out of most guys to only be with one girl for the rest of their life, more so when they're young, and yes sex early on ruins most chances for a long term relationship because he's getting everything he wants without the commitment, so why would he want to commit? There really isn't a way to tell if a guy's stringing you along or wants a commitment but a few ways to tell is if he's a genuinely nice guy and if he's willing to not have sex for a very long time after you start dating.

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  • How would you be able to tell the difference when you first start dating that he wants something real?

    Ask him what he wants on the first date.

    without the female having to bring anything up?

    Oh... well I guess it would be really difficult to find out in that case.

    Also does having sex too soon really do ruin something when dating?

    Depends. What's being ruined?

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