every time I approach a woman she always rejects me, they would either say, "You're not my type, I like you as a friend, I don't date black men, & you're to ugly to be talking to me." This is a losing battle for me and I'm so close to giving up on dating completely and stay alone forever. I'm 23, and I feel like no woman is attracted to me I don't see why a woman would ever love a geek college nerd like me so I'm throwing in the towel and giving up on dating. Is this a bad idea? Women aren't attracted to me, so why should I talk to them?
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I hate how people say you have all the damn time in the world, because we are only young once, and women, girls are the hottest, most attractive when they are in their late teens to early 20's, or just 20's and somewhat early 30's, and us guys gotta use our time wisely because doubtfully a woman is gonna want to date or marry a man who is old enough to be her Father, and plus, I hate how us guys have to work, fix, change, improve upon ourselves way more than girls do in order to be dating and relationship material, a girl can be insecure, have low self-esteem, socially-awkward, socially-retarded, bad social-skills, reclusive, introverted, and the odds will be much more heavily in her favor to land a relationship, date, etc.
Girls are allowed to attach their sense and worth of having a boyfriend, relationship in their life, allowed to validation but not the other way around, unfair double-standard there, if it's not a double-standard, and it's because men and women are different in their perspectives on attraction, well, it's a reason why I hate a hatred of women, and don't mistake hatred for blaming, the key word is hate, because I hate the standards they have in us guys in order to be dating and relationship material, a girl does not really need anything going for her in her life in order to be dating/relationship material, they simply just have to exist!7
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