Im 6'5 (which may be a little too tall), 175lb, I swam for my university and I study Muay Thai Kickboxing so I consider myself to be in pretty good shape. I've been told by a lot of girls that I'm confident and charming. The problem is that I always seem to end up in flirty intimate situations with women, for example, its 4am, just the two of us and I'm staring into her eyes, or were watching a film on the sofa cuddled up. But it never seems to get any further than that, not even kissing. I'm aware that I'm quite blind to signals and don't really realize what situation I'm in (like looking into a girls eyes and brushing hair behind her ear when its just the two of us at 5am) I'm just fed up of it going really well then nothing happening, I do all of the work, and its going really well, its just that's it, nothing happens. Am I missing a secret or step that everyone knows about. Girls, put yourself in one of the situations I've mentioned, what would you do, or expect me to do next ?
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Okay so news flash if a girls with you at 5am she digs you, and you're not too tall for her :P
I'm not sure if she's the only girl you've cuddled with like this, is she?
Is it the first move you have trouble making? Because as I said before she's already there, that's her making the first move, and it's you who needs to make the second one to show her you're interested too.
I know it's tough to make the first move, just keep thinking "she's here, she's cuddling, she wants to be here" pump yourself up and then gently turn her head and kiss her. I know another girl said you can ask her, but that always seemed timid and childish. You want to come off as confident and sexy. If you don't want to just take her face in your hand. Say her name wait until she looks in your eyes and then take her face and kiss her, it can be as simple as tilting her chin up or holding the side of her face. She will adore it0