Usually when I hear someone say 'so and so was a bad kisser' it's usually a girl saying that about a guy.
But is it ever the girl that's horrible as well?
Agree or disagree?
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Kissing is a sensual thing. It's full of emotion and desire. You have to feel a passion for the person you're kissing to really be a good kisser. Since guys tend to be reserved with their feelings (or in some cases wary about showing how much they feel for a person), kissing is a quick, dry, preemptive exercise before the better stuff comes along. This is especially the case with the shyer guys. The best kiss I ever had was from a guy who really just loved women. He loved kissing and so he was good at it. He knew how to tease a girl's mouth till she could barely move and he just basically seduced her with his kisses. Wish more guys were like that. Alas...
Having said this, there are some girls who are HORRENDOUS kissers. Taking their cue from the sedate guy, they become the overzealous aggressors and basically nearly swallow the guy's face, engage in excessive tongue-bathing, etc. Ugh. Keep it simple, light, and sweet, girls!
If both the guy and the girl just start out by following each others' leads -- a quick series of pecks, a little flick of tongue to hint when you're ready for more (gentle licking/sucking/biting), but don't slobber all over each other and don't draw blood. Play nicely, boys and girls!0