I dated a guy and he is probably one of the hottest guys I know. In my opinion, out of my league. And he's not one of those shy but good looking guys. He's more of the player/a**hole type. But I dated him for 9 months, so I must be at least kind of attractive , right? But I don't feel attractive. For one my nose is huge and crooked.
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Here is the deal. I'm sure you are plenty attractive. Everybody has their own unique qualities which make them attractive, and I'm sure you are beautiful just the way you are. Like you I have never felt that I was attractive, but I have been told by girls and women before that I am, I still don't feel that I am, but my whole point is, it is far more important to be concerned about what you do and how you act. I say this because as you have indicated it sounds like your "out of league" boyfriend was not very nice to you, so how important were his looks when he was being unkind to you? Wouldn't you have preferred to be with a guy who may have been slightly less stellar in the looks department but really awesome in how he treated you? The same goes for guys by in large they would rather be with a girl who is a great person than a real looker who is ugly inside. I'm not suggesting that you are not a nice person at all, just that you should worry less about how you measure up to media standards and who you are as a person is all.0