I met this girl online and we hit it off. She asked me to Skype so we did after 3 tries (once I called her and she had already went to bed, the second time she bailed on me. Third time I actually woke up and got out of bed just to talk to her since I knew that would probably be my last chance). We talked for almost 2 hrs and time flew by. I ended up stopping her since I had to get to bed for work the next day. She said she was "surprised" at what time it was. Anyway, it's been 4 days now and I messaged her once since and have never heard back. Also, I see online that she has continued visiting the online dating site since we talked (as have I). I Skype from my phone so the Skype shows me as always online. She could have called/messaged me whenever and I would have received it. Should I move on at this point then? It really annoys me that she would waste my time for 2hrs if she wasn't interested.
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I had the same problem with my first few Skype dates. We had to schedule/reschedule some nights a few times, we talked for almost an hour, then guess what? I never hear from them again!
I too, sent a message or two the next day; and I either get replies that are like 2-words long or no reply at all. They were not interested either.
When I did online dating, I found a lot of the girls were either:
1) Pretend to like you when they had a boyfriend the whole time. They just do it so when you go to her friends and talk like you're dating her, you'll end up getting slapped in the face. Why? Because they want fun, and they're a terrible person.
2) Were super-shallow. All they care about is themselves; and they want the best; so nothing is going to stop them from getting it! If they don't see you as worthy, they're going to disregard you (let alone, their netiquette), and completely blow you off.
I quit online dating after eight months because of those and I found their profiles to be super-monotonous. Seriously, play the drinking game, and every time they say "Country" (music, redneck lifestyle), take a drink: You won't survive half an hour.0