How often should men and women communicate while dating? For instance, if they've been dating for 3 months, should communication be 50/50? Or should the guy still be the "pursuer" and contact the girl more?
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My girl calls me at least 3/4 of the time we talk on the phone. I warned her of that when we first started dating; I'm lousy with the phone because I hate being on it unless it's absolutely necessary. We talk a lot in person, and I see her at least twice a week (sometimes 4 or even 5), but I'm not very pro-active on the phone.
It has NOTHING to do with how I feel about her, I just don't like the phone, and prefer to talk in person. It's always been that way with me (my jobs have always seemed to involve a lot of phone work, so when I'm not working, I hate being on the phone), and fortunately my girlfriends have been fine with it.
Not everyone is like me, but a LOT of guys aren't pro-active communicators when they aren't face-to-face. Don't take that personally, it's just how they are.0