After a huge argument last week, me and my boyfriend haven't talked much. On Saturday, he texted and said we are still together, he's really confused, but would like to be left alone. So I left him alone. But he still haven't contacted me yet. Why wouldn't he just pick up the phone and give me a call or a text? What is running through his mind?
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He is probably thinking about how life would be with out you... He may find it miserable and get back to you, or he may find it great and just leave you...
It all depends on what actually happened. If he texted you saying you were both "still" together, that means that he doesn't actually know what to do. That might have been a test to see if you would go after him or just get over with it. If you thing that might be the case, call him right know. If you don't, call him still and you'll see (He answers, you did the right thing. if he doesn't, it's just the same or he might have left the phone at home)
When he sais he would like to be left alone, depends A LOT on what has happended on that day... It would be really great if you shout it out here so you can have a precise answer but that's your decision.
I think you should go after him. If he still loves you, we will be afraid to talk to you and face the situation, and when he sees you he might ever cry a bit and everything will be good again (or even better than before).
If he doesn't, he will just be a bit mad about it, and you got your self an answer, but be sure to ask if he loves you... If he doesn't anwser, get closer ans ask it face to face on the eyes so that he can feel the pressure. If he still does anything, just leave and wait until your done with all that and it will be the end of everything (maintain him informed about it. He might go after if you do it. or not)
On my personal case, I would probably just end everything if my loved one ignores me that long for something stupid (unless you did really screw things up).1