Bottom line up front: A girl I'd been talking with in October-November wants me to meet one of her friends.
Back story: We talked for about a month before I asked her out. At that point, I'd been single since high school and had since been emotionally abused by another girl I'd pursued and received other misguided advice on relationships, so there were things I'd either forgotten or never learned in the first place, i.e., talking about the second date.
I'll admit that on the first date, I may have gotten a little ahead of myself in talking about a prospective second date. She waited about a week or so until she called it off. I'd told her that I felt I might have moved a little too quickly. No dice. The other two girls I'd dated before had behaved similarly. They acted like everything was fine when it really wasn't.
Anyway, last night, I got an e-mail from her saying she has a friend she may want me to meet (she and I haven't talked for several weeks). I'm not quite sure how to take to that. I know that because of how she went about things, I shouldn't just dismiss her friend. But at the same time, I'm not so sure I want anything to do with her.
Thank you for your input.
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It would be best if you politely reject her invitation.
You don't feel really comfortable meeting that friend of hers, and it's the girl you're talking with that you're interested in.0