I've been hanging out with an old friend recently. We've only hung out 3 times but each time kind of seemed like a date. Basically they were dates, just nobody ever mentioned the word date, and I never really made any moves because I wasn't sure if it was a date. I'm pretty sure she would be interested in a relationship I just don't know how to bring it up. Do I ask her out again and clarify before that it will be a date. Do I just try making a small move like holding hands the next time we are out? Do I ask her what she thinks about us?
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Hm. Would it be out of the question to tell her you like her? I know that can be kind of touchy, but if it does seem like you guys have been on what are technically "dates", I don't see it being a problem. Maybe ask her if she could ever see the two of you together. Or, make a lighthearted joke about it, this way you can laugh it off if things go awry after.
I like the idea of holding hands. Maybe to test the waters a little more casually, you could lightly rest your fingers on her hand if you guys are sitting down and talking and she has her hands resting on a table...that might not be a bad idea.
I also really do like the idea of asking her what she thinks about you two together.
Best of luck!1