I went out with a guy this weekend,. We had a really good time, at least I thought so and ended up kissing a lot. I spent the night at his house because I was a little drunk but we didn't have sex, we only cuddled in bed even though he wanted more. He asked me what plans I had but didn't ask me out again and when I left, we had a passionate goodbye kiss and he said that it was nice meeting me and that he would keep in touch. But to me, that phrase sounds like "ok its been nice knowing you." Its been three days now and I still haven't heard from him and I am extremely impatient. I am thinking maybe he is a little shy so should I contact him first and say I had a nice time? Or maybe he is mad that I didn't sleep with him. Thoughts?
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So he got you into his bed on date one and you think he's shy?! I got news for you, shy guys don't have the balls to do half of what this guy accomplished in one date.
Point is, usually the guys who are good like this, are the players, that's why their players, because they're good at the game. He most likely just wanted a ONS. That's why he got you drunk and had you stay over. I've seen the tactic before numerous times. Invite girl over to drink, get her drunk, once she's inebriated, invite her to sleep in your room under the guise of looking out for her, then slowly ease your way into sex by starting with cuddling, maybe suggest making out, and then boom. The next morning she's thinking "I can't believe I just did that".3