My boyfriend of 7 months is confusing me with his inconsistency. We live an hour apart and spend the weekends together (Fri-Mon morning). During this time, he is sweet, attentive, and we get along great. It feels like we practically live together during this time. But come through the week, I don't hear from him much. I might get a couple good mornings, and a couple night calls, but that's it. I don't know if this should be a concern, but it makes me feel like he's not thinking about me...outta sight outta mind. He says he loves me and through the week he is just busy doing things he don't get done during the weekend. It just feels weird to be so close for a few days, then hardly nothing...until the weekend again. any thoughts?
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You're middle aged...waaay to grown to think this way. Does the guy have a job? Other important responsibilities? It seems like you are on the verge of going neurotic and female on this guy and tanking the relationship. If when he's with you he makes you feel really good about yourself, then you've got a good thing going. Afterall, it's only 7 months you've been together.0