OK, so my ex and I have been broken up for over a year. He did the breaking. Since last summer he has managed to call or text about every month to tell me he can't get me out of his mind and it's driving him crazy. He has a girlfriend now and is not asking me out on dates he just wants to see me. He showed up last week in the city I live in and that very night was seen out with his girlfriend. He truly broke my heart and I am wondering why is he even bothering with contacting me now. I told him to please just leave me alone that I wasn't the girl he comes to when he gets bored. I have told him this plenty of times but he always seems to come back a few months later. I don't get it!
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I would suggest just not answering the phone when he calls or block his number. I don't know you but most women only answer calls from an ex they claim not to want anything to do with if they are just trying to convince themselves. Think about it If you really want nothing to do with him, then why bother answering his calls or texts. If ignoring him does not work change your number then he will not be able to contact yo unless you give him the new number. I had a simuler problem and I just told him to leave me alone, that he messed it up not me and I was not a booty call or a shoulder to cry on when something does not go the way he wants it. That he sould have made better judgement before breaking it off with me and he needs to get on with the choice he made, and leave me out of it.0