I am a twenty years old girl with basically no dating experience and I am a virgin.
About two months ago I met this guy online. He is one day older than I am, he goes to uni.
We met twice in person and I really like him. This week he asked me if I wanted to hang out at my place, that he would bring food and movies over.
I got really excited and agreed, even though we did not set a date yet. Then I slept on it and now I am a bit afraid. Isn´t he moving a bit too fast? I live alone and being stupid I told him that. He lives with his parents, so it kind of makes sense to hang out at my place.
I like him and he seems nice, but I do not really know him. Should I be afraid that he will try to abuse me or something? Should I tell him that I do not want to invite him to my place yet? I do not want to make him feel like I am not interested, Because I am!
What do you guys think?
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Being at your place just the two of you makes it very easy to cross certain lines...although he can't make the assumption that just because you two are alone at your place that you are giving him permission to do so. Just be aware that you may get lost in the moment. So if you don't want to put yourself in compromising situations, don't hang out at your place until your ready for what can happen. Just say you'd rather see a movie at the theater or something :)0