Is it normal to not cuddle?

Whenever I sleep over at my boyfriend's we never cuddle. We both fall asleep and don't really touch or anything. My boyfriend is super tall, he's 6'4" and I'm 5'7". Then, usually when we first wake up in the morning and put the alarm on snooze my boyfriend will still not spoon me or anything but butt he'll grab my butt or legs, and then we end up making out. Is this normal?


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What Guys Said 1

  • I don't think so, lack of affection not really is normal, maybe if you're both tired and just want to fall asleep ASAP then it's OK but if it's a pattern.. then in my opinion it's a red flag.


What Girls Said 1

  • why don't you try to spoon him, or something like that and see if he'll do it too ... don't know sounds weird to me, maybe he can't really show emotions or isn't used to it

    make the first move and see if he changes