I had a first date with a guy 3 days ago. We kissed at the end of the date but I haven't heard from him since. Is he just not interested?Should I break contact if so what should I say?
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Why do you contact him as ask him?
Situations like this I think are commonly a big Mexican standoff. Both the guy and the girl are thinking exactly what you are thinking. Both are interested, but unsure what the other is thinking, both hoping the other will break the silence and contact them first. However, typically due to social norms and gender roles, its the guy who is expected to break this silence. That means, you end up with a guy who is a bit shy, and you'll find yourself not getting anywhere.
Contact him, ask if he wants to hang out again. If he refuses, well then you know where you stand and can stop wondering and sweating over what he's thinking. Just because you're a girl doesn't mean you can't take initiative. As a matter of fact a lot of guys would have a ton of respect for a girl who after we asked her on date one, made the arrangements for date two. Huge browny points in my book. Not because I'm shy either, but because I like to see her make some effort that tells me our future relationship will not revolve around me being her servant.1