So.. I met this girl in class and we hit it off , I took her number but it was for something related to class and I put her as my friends in FB and I started liking the girl more and more so I started chatting with her in class and over fb and all super cool, flirting with each other and having normal conversation, so today I send her a text asking her out for next Thursday but in a cool way and she said yes but she had to check her work schedule and that's it. My question is to you guys and girls, How should I keep in touch with her cause I don't want to keep bombarding her with words and conversation too often cause I get paranoid and think I'm bothering her and I don't wanna throw her off you know.. and I wanna keep in touch with her till next Thursday so she gets comfortable talking to me in case we go out? Should I write her sometimes on FB or text her once or twice in the weekend? Any Advice girls and guys?
What is the next step to get this girl? Any advice?
What Girls Said 2
It depends on how often you talked before, how she's responded in the previous convos, & your judgment of how into you she might be.
Personally, I get worried when a guy I'm getting to know texts too often, it's a snap reaction. Too interested. Sounds stupid, but there it is. If I'm just coming around to the idea of being interested in him, a couple texts/short convo every two days is great, if I'm into him, he could text me every day or every other day and I'd be happy, but this isn't an exact science, obviously.
I think the problem is, when people like someone, they build up expectations and stop acting like themselves and thus they have to worry about things like texting too much. If you downplay your interest in her to yourself and make yourself busy with the other things in your life, you'll naturally find an appropriate rhythm of communication with her (and any other girls).
That said, I think it's acceptable to wait til Monday to text her with a casual hi, how's it going and after that convo is over, perhaps wait until Thursday to text again and just be casual about it, as if you didn't necessarily expect that your plans would work out. Because, what if she cancels? Things change during the week. In general, making plans that far in advance sucks, from my experience. Too much possibility that something comes up.
i'd say wait a few days and then text her and ask what's up, how she's doing, stuff like that. if she likes you, you won't be bothering you, she'll be happy you're texting her. you could probably text her like twice or so until Thursday, I don't think that would come off as bombarding her at all.0
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