I am lucky to be constantly asked on dates, however I am very picky with who I actually go out with. It is very rare for one of these guys to catch my attention... but when it happens, it always seems like the tables turn very quickly and the guy loses interest. Why is this?
I don't play games, if I am interested in a guy I will text him and call him (but within reason, I don't send 2 texts back to back with no reply or anything crazy like that), I will do little things for him like cook him dinner or massage his back. I make it clear that I am interested so I don't need to say it, ya know? I have many guy friends and all of them say that I'm a great catch and even sometimes they wish their girlfriend treated them like I treat the guys I date.
So why am I single? What can I do differently?
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Haha you and I are pretty much the same when it comes to dating. It's easy to get dates and I go on a lot of them but things never work out and yes it's frustrating as hell. I've got high standards because I know I'm a great guy and I'm looking for a relationship, not a one time temporary girl to screw around with. I'm not going to tell you to lower your standards, nor do I think you come on too strong. You're really pretty, so I think a lot of the guys you go out with aren't interested in a meaningful relationship, rather they want to have some fun with the girl in front of them without a commitment. Keep in mind that many guys our age are really only interested in hooking up and no relationship. So you're getting guys like that who then get annoyed when they see you want something serious so they leave.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you; I went through years of going on dates with the wrong girls and things would never work out and EVERYBODY wonders why I'm single so you're not alone. You're upfront, genuine, and honest which my last date taught me that many people are not like that. You just need to find a guy who has the courage to be confident in himself and also be upfront and honest with how he feels. Don't listen to all the guys giving you sh*t, they're in te same category as all the douche bags out there so don't mind their criticism. It's really nice to know that there's a pretty girl out there who sticks to who she is and isn't sleeping around :)1
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